Parenting with temperament in mind : navigating the challenges and celebrating your child's strengths /
Liliana J. Lengua, and Maria A. Gartstein,
- ix, 286 pages ; 23 cm.
- APA lifetools series .
Includes bibliographical references and index.
Machine generated contents note: Introduction: Tailoring Your Parenting to Your Children's Temperament -- Part I. Understanding Temperament and Parenting -- Chapter 1. What Is Temperament? -- Chapter 2. Temperament Characteristics and Behaviors -- Chapter 3. Brain and Body Systems Underlying Temperament -- Chapter 4. Core Parenting Principles -- Part II. Parenting With Your Children's Temperament in Mind -- Chapter 5. The Fearful or Fearless Child -- Chapter 6. The Easily Frustrated Child -- Chapter 7. The Impulsive Child -- Chapter 8. The Inflexible Child -- Part III. The Core Parenting Principles -- Chapter 9. Be Present -- Chapter 10. Be Warm -- Chapter 11. Be Balanced -- Chapter 12. Be Consistent -- Chapter 13. Being Consistent with Common Challenges -- Afterword: Building Social and Emotional Competence, Joy, and Well-Being -- References -- Appendix A: Child Temperament Assessment -- Appendix B: Parenting Self-Reflection .
"This book will help parents understand and work more effectively with their child's temperament"-- This book will help parents understand and work more effectively with their young child's temperament. Effective parenting isn't one-size-fits-all. Every child comes with an innate temperament, which includes a unique set of emotional reactions and personal strengths, a motivational style, and needs that demand attention. And every family has its own values and culture. While we cannot change our child's natural temperament (nor would we want to!), we can impact their self-regulation systems, nurture their positive behaviors, and promote healthy social and emotional development. In this book, psychologists Liliana Lengua and Maria Gartstein offer readers science-based recommendations for parenting based on the individual temperament of your child and the specific needs of your family. To help readers understand the innate nature of temperaments, the book begins with a brief, accessible overview of the neurobiological systems that underlie temperament. Combining this scientific understanding of temperaments with the latest psychological theories and research, as well as the authors' own experience as clinicians and mothers, the authors present four broad parenting principles and then show how to apply these principles with young children of different temperaments. In particular, they focus on a handful of temperament characteristics that, when very strong, can present challenges related to children's social, emotional, and behavioral development and well-being. These include being fearful, impulsive, inflexible, and easily frustrated. With its simple practical advice, relatable examples, and questionnaires to help you assess your child's temperament and your own parenting practices, this book gives you the tools you need to parent more effectively and strengthen your relationship with your child--
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Parenting--Psychological aspects. Temperament in children. Parent and child--Psychological aspects. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / General PSYCHOLOGY / Developmental / Child