TY - BOOK AU - Sunim,Heamin AU - Smith,Deborah TI - Love for imperfect things : : how to accept yourself in a world striving for perfection / SN - 9780143132295 AV - BQ4570.L6 H9413 2016 U1 - 294.35677 23 PY - 2016/// CY - New York : PB - Penguin Books, KW - Love KW - Religious aspects KW - Buddhism. KW - Conduct of life KW - Spiritual life N1 - Self-care -- Don't be to good -- Your existence is already enough -- Family -- "Please look after mom" -- Understanding our fathers -- Empathy -- The power of hugs -- Listening is an act of love -- Relationships -- On a Zen retreat -- Dealing with disappointment -- Courage -- To my beloved young friends -- The first failure -- Healing -- When forgiveness is hard -- "Haemin, I am a little depressed -- Enlightenment -- The mind's true home -- My spiritual journey -- Acceptance -- The art of letting go -- Lessons from life's low point. ER -